In today’s world, children are increasingly exposed to complex questions about identity at younger ages. God Made Boys and Girls offers a calm, faith-centred resource that helps children navigate these questions with clarity, confidence, and love. While the book addresses gender directly, its message is much broader and deeper than that.
Written for children ages 4–8 by a parent and a pastor, the story unfolds in a classroom where students begin asking thoughtful questions about whether boys will always be boys and girls always be girls. Through their teacher’s gentle guidance, they learn that God intentionally created each person as male or female. Their identity is not determined by hobbies, preferences, or personality traits, but by God’s loving design. This foundational message reassures children that they are not accidents — they are created with purpose.
However, the heart of the book goes beyond explaining gender. It also teaches why God’s divine design matters. The children are reminded that living according to God’s plan brings true happiness. When people try to live only “their own way,” apart from God’s wisdom, confusion and hurt can follow. But when we trust God’s design and follow His ways, we experience peace and joy.
Equally important is the book’s emphasis on love. Children are encouraged not only to understand their own identity, but also to treat others with kindness and respect. Even when someone feels confused or struggles with identity, they are still worthy of compassion.
The message is clear: we share God’s love by loving people well. Truth and love are not presented as opposites; rather, they are shown to work together. The included parent section also provides helpful biblical references and guidance for continuing these conversations at home, making this a valuable resource for blessed families raising Pure Water children who desire to grow in confidence, clarity, and love.
Good resource for Children’s Ministry, highly recommend for teachers and pastors.
Recommended Age: 4+
Available on: Amazon
*This book was recommended by Dawn P. If you have children’s book recommendations, please send them to ala@ffwpu.org.uk. Thank you!
